Virginity/Sexual Decision-Making – College Sex Talk https://collegesextalk.com Real people real answers Tue, 17 Jan 2023 00:30:38 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.9.25 How do you decide to have sex with someone when you’re torn between fear of disease and a need for closeness? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=how-do-you-decide-to-have-sex-with-someone-when-youre-torn-between-fear-of-disease-and-a-need-for-closeness Tue, 09 Jan 2018 14:02:26 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1315 I am a 20 year old college student and the unique part about me from the rest of the college students is that I haven’t had sex yet because I feel that it is my choice and I should only do it at a right time with the right person. I have had many females friends that wanted to have sex with me when they drank, but I refused their requests because I think they are being irresponsible in their attitudes. Now I know that especially in today’s college and high school atmosphere, being a virgin makes you a loser. But I totally disagree on that and believe that sex isn’t a childish game, it is a choice and you should only do it when you think you are ready and responsible for it. What do you think? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=i-am-a-20-year-old-college-student-and-the-unique-part-about-me-from-the-rest-of-the-college-students-is-that-i-havent-had-sex-yet-because-i-feel-that-it-is-my-choice-and-i-should-only-do-it-at-a-ri Tue, 09 Jan 2018 14:03:47 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1317 I find myself attracted to my roommate’s boyfriend and he makes passes at me when she’s not around. If I follow my true feelings my friend will be hurt, but should I sacrifice my happiness for hers? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=i-find-myself-attracted-to-my-roommates-boyfriend-and-he-makes-passes-at-me-when-shes-not-around-if-i-follow-my-true-feelings-my-friend-will-be-hurt-but-should-i-sacrifice-my-happiness-for-hers Tue, 09 Jan 2018 14:12:05 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1331 I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. I think that I am ready to have sex, but have always been told to wait till I am married. I do not want to disappoint my mother by going through with it, but I do love my boyfriend, and I am almost positive that I am ready. Any thoughts? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=i-have-been-dating-my-boyfriend-for-2-12-years-i-think-that-i-am-ready-to-have-sex-but-have-always-been-told-to-wait-till-i-am-married-i-do-not-want-to-disappoint-my-mother-by-going-through-with-i Tue, 09 Jan 2018 14:06:04 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1321 I hear so much talk about abstaining from sex before marriage – but my question is this: If I were to believe in no sex before marriage, how would I know the man I was to marry would be sexually compatible for me? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=i-hear-so-much-talk-about-abstaining-from-sex-before-marriage-but-my-question-is-this-if-i-were-to-believe-in-no-sex-before-marriage-how-would-i-know-the-man-i-was-to-marry-would-be-sexually-compa Tue, 09 Jan 2018 14:06:46 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1323 I was watching an old episode of “Sex and the City” recently and they brought up the topic of women regaining virginity after a year of not having sex. I am guessing sex in this case is sexual intercourse. I have asked a few of my friends about this topic and all of them have given me huge grief about it. Is it not true that the vagina regenerates itself and therefore virginity can be almost physically regained? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=1319 Tue, 09 Jan 2018 14:04:28 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1319 I’m not sure what to do. My boyfriend and I have a great time together but in many ways we’re not the same. In fact, the longer we go out, the more pronounced our differences become. He feels that it’s okay to have sex before marriage, while I believe in waiting. I don’t want to break up with him – but it doesn’t seem possible to continue dating, if you know what I mean. https://collegesextalk.com/?question=im-not-sure-what-to-do-my-boyfriend-and-i-have-a-great-time-together-but-in-many-ways-were-not-the-same-in-fact-the-longer-we-go-out-the-more-pronounced-our-differences-become-he-feels-that-i Tue, 09 Jan 2018 14:08:55 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1327 Is it wrong of me to have sex with a good “friend” that I have known since middle school. We have both talked about it and said that we would keep it between us…Is that a bad thing? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=is-it-wrong-of-me-to-have-sex-with-a-good-friend-that-i-have-known-since-middle-school-we-have-both-talked-about-it-and-said-that-we-would-keep-it-between-us-is-that-a-bad-thing Tue, 09 Jan 2018 14:09:54 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1329 It strikes me odd, but for some reason, being a virgin is a huge turn-off for most women that I meet. Why? Do they think that since I am a virgin, no one else wants me, so I’m worthless? Or, are they just thinking with their sexual desires instead of their head? Either way, it is hard being a virgin in college. Thanks. https://collegesextalk.com/?question=it-strikes-me-odd-but-for-some-reason-being-a-virgin-is-a-huge-turn-off-for-most-women-that-i-meet-why-do-they-think-that-since-i-am-a-virgin-no-one-else-wants-me-so-im-worthless-or-are-they Tue, 09 Jan 2018 14:07:37 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1325