Thoughts/Fantasies – College Sex Talk https://collegesextalk.com Real people real answers Tue, 17 Jan 2023 00:30:38 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.9.25 hi i fantasize very frequently about having sex with this guy i have a crush on. I feel embarrassed about thinking about this. i bought lubrication and want to buy condoms even though i may not use them. i try to hide these feelings and im ashamed and so embarrassed. where do you suppose this feeling comes from? should i feel this way? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=hi-i-fantasize-very-frequently-about-having-sex-with-this-guy-i-have-a-crush-on-i-feel-embarrassed-about-thinking-about-this-i-bought-lubrication-and-want-to-buy-condoms-even-though-i-may-not-use-th Mon, 08 Jan 2018 02:36:07 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1178 I have been seeing a woman for 3-1/2 years. This was the first sexual relationship for both of us. We are both very much in love, but here’s the problem: I think about relationships with other women, specifically these two other women I am friends with. I think of these other women everyday and everyday I feel guilty. It’s driving me crazy. I often fantasize about having sex with these other women, and sometimes even when I am making love to my girlfriend. I feel very badly about this. I can’t stand the idea of hurting my girlfriend. My feelings of guilt and confusion are effecting my concentration and I often become depressed. Help! https://collegesextalk.com/?question=i-have-been-seeing-a-woman-for-3-12-years-this-was-the-first-sexual-relationship-for-both-of-us-we-are-both-very-much-in-love-but-heres-the-problem-i-think-about-relationships-with-other-women Mon, 08 Jan 2018 02:39:06 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1182 I have never had sex with someone of the same sex, but have often admired their bodies. Is this unusual? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=i-have-never-had-sex-with-someone-of-the-same-sex-but-have-often-admired-their-bodies-is-this-unusual Mon, 08 Jan 2018 02:37:09 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1180