Sexual Function/Problems – College Sex Talk https://collegesextalk.com Real people real answers Tue, 17 Jan 2023 00:30:38 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.9.25 : I am never able to fuly attain an orgasm. Whether with my boyfriend, or while masturbating, I always reach the point where I feel an orgasm coming, and then my body becomes completely numb for a few moments. After, I feel overly sensitive, as though I’ve just had an orgasm. What can I do to stop “freezing” and start feeling the orgasm? I’ve had orgasms in the past, but not in a few years. I’ve never experienced anything sexually traumatic, and my relationship with my boyfriend is very fulfilling, so what could the problem be? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=i-am-never-able-to-fuly-attain-an-orgasm-whether-with-my-boyfriend-or-while-masturbating-i-always-reach-the-point-where-i-feel-an-orgasm-coming-and-then-my-body-becomes-completely-numb-for-a-few Mon, 08 Jan 2018 01:12:26 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1095 After having sex, my partner often complains that she is sore in the area around the vagina, but she is constantly telling me that I am gentle with her. What is it that I could be doing wrong, or better, what is it that I could be doing right? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=after-having-sex-my-partner-often-complains-that-she-is-sore-in-the-area-around-the-vagina-but-she-is-constantly-telling-me-that-i-am-gentle-with-her-what-is-it-that-i-could-be-doing-wrong-or-bett Mon, 08 Jan 2018 01:08:03 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1087 How does a women tactfully tell her partner that she is not satisfied, that he needs to slow down and perhaps take time to do a few more things rather than just take care of himself – especially when he is convinced that he is doing everything well? How do you bring this up? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=how-does-a-women-tactfully-tell-her-partner-that-she-is-not-satisfied-that-he-needs-to-slow-down-and-perhaps-take-time-to-do-a-few-more-things-rather-than-just-take-care-of-himself-especially-when Mon, 08 Jan 2018 00:18:50 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1067 I have a question for a friend of mine. He has recently been dating this woman. She states that she has never had an orgasm before. She has not had sex in 2 years. When my friend and her went to have intercourse, he said that it was very painful for her. They tried Vaseline and lubrication from the drugstore, but it didn’t seem to alleviate the pain. Any suggestions as to why or how they can prevent future reoccurrences of this painful event https://collegesextalk.com/?question=i-have-a-question-for-a-friend-of-mine-he-has-recently-been-dating-this-woman-she-states-that-she-has-never-had-an-orgasm-before-she-has-not-had-sex-in-2-years-when-my-friend-and-her-went-to-have Mon, 08 Jan 2018 01:06:19 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1085 I have been in a relationship with a girl I have known for almost a year now. Our sex life is healthy but she says that I am not creative. She wants me to think up new ideas but I need help. Suggestions? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=i-have-been-in-a-relationship-with-a-girl-i-have-known-for-almost-a-year-now-our-sex-life-is-healthy-but-she-says-that-i-am-not-creative-she-wants-me-to-think-up-new-ideas-but-i-need-help-suggestio Mon, 08 Jan 2018 00:21:52 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1073 I’ve suffered from premature ejaculation ever since I began having sex at age 16. I’m 20 now and it only gets worse. Upon insertion, I have no control over what happens. It’s hurting my relationship now and I’m afraid it will hurt me for the rest of my life. Is there a cure? Something that can fix it? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=ive-suffered-from-premature-ejaculation-ever-since-i-began-having-sex-at-age-16-im-20-now-and-it-only-gets-worse-upon-insertion-i-have-no-control-over-what-happens-its-hurting-my-relationshi Mon, 08 Jan 2018 00:27:28 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1077 Is it normal for a man, on occasion, not to be able to get an erection while being stimulated? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=is-it-normal-for-a-man-on-occasion-not-to-be-able-to-get-an-erection-while-being-stimulated Sun, 07 Jan 2018 19:58:32 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1054 Is it true that “sex before the big game” weakens you? Male, Senior https://collegesextalk.com/?question=is-it-true-that-sex-before-the-big-game-weakens-you-male-senior Mon, 08 Jan 2018 00:28:53 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1079 Is there a difference between the sex drives in men and women? If yes, what are those differences? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=is-there-a-difference-between-the-sex-drives-in-men-and-women-if-yes-what-are-those-differences Mon, 08 Jan 2018 00:11:54 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1060 Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months. When we have sex I can’t come. I think I can do it but I’m not sure, this upsets my boyfriend as he thinks I don’t get pleasure from sex with him but I do. Can you help me?? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=me-and-my-boyfriend-have-been-together-for-4-months-when-we-have-sex-i-cant-come-i-think-i-can-do-it-but-im-not-sure-this-upsets-my-boyfriend-as-he-thinks-i-dont-get-pleasure-from-sex-with-hi Mon, 08 Jan 2018 01:10:18 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1091