Love – College Sex Talk https://collegesextalk.com Real people real answers Tue, 17 Jan 2023 00:30:38 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.9.25 How can I get an athlete to fall in love with me? Female, Sophomore A: Nobody can make another person fall in love with him or her. Love is a gift – not something you can negotiate. Question from a student at Indiana: I have never really had a good relationship. One minute I’m head-over-heels in love with someone and the next minute I’m not interested at all. I wonder if I can ever find that special someone. https://collegesextalk.com/?question=how-can-i-get-an-athlete-to-fall-in-love-with-me-female-sophomore-a-nobody-can-make-another-person-fall-in-love-with-him-or-her-love-is-a-gift-not-something-you-can-negotiate-question-from-a-st Tue, 09 Jan 2018 02:35:03 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1255 I can’t seem to forgive my boyfriend for being unfaithful to me almost a year ago. I have decided that I want to be with him, and he has absolutely proven that its only me he wants. However, each time I’m reminded of how he betrayed me, (whether its a TV show, or the mention of a girl with the same name) I get very upset and emotional all over again. Is it normal to be this upset – almost a year later? How can I get over this?? Help! https://collegesextalk.com/?question=i-cant-seem-to-forgive-my-boyfriend-for-being-unfaithful-to-me-almost-a-year-ago-i-have-decided-that-i-want-to-be-with-him-and-he-has-absolutely-proven-that-its-only-me-he-wants-however-each-t Tue, 09 Jan 2018 02:32:01 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1249 I have a wonderful relationship and would like to know some of the keys to making a relationship last….. I am interested in what suggestions you might have for keeping our relationship together. https://collegesextalk.com/?question=i-have-a-wonderful-relationship-and-would-like-to-know-some-of-the-keys-to-making-a-relationship-last-i-am-interested-in-what-suggestions-you-might-have-for-keeping-our-relationship-together Tue, 09 Jan 2018 02:31:15 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1247 I have never really had a good relationship. One minute I’m head-over-heels in love with someone and the next minute I’m not interested at all. I wonder if I can ever find that https://collegesextalk.com/?question=i-have-never-really-had-a-good-relationship-one-minute-im-head-over-heels-in-love-with-someone-and-the-next-minute-im-not-interested-at-all-i-wonder-if-i-can-ever-find-that Tue, 09 Jan 2018 02:30:06 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1245 I have recently found a new boy friend after many years of waiting for one and constantly being under stress for my past two years at college for various reasons. I really love the guy that I am with and I want to share everything with him. However when I was spending the week with him for spring break I have found that my sexual desire was virtually non-existent. And this feeling has been there for awhile. And it is becoming a real problem because I want to be with him and be satisfied by him sexually. My non-existent sexual desire has made me not even want to masturbate to see what turns me on. the only time when I am in the mood is when i have to take the extra energy to get into it, which is very tiring within itself, and the other time is when i am extremely drunk. Please help me with this problem that is plaguing my sex life. https://collegesextalk.com/?question=i-have-recently-found-a-new-boy-friend-after-many-years-of-waiting-for-one-and-constantly-being-under-stress-for-my-past-two-years-at-college-for-various-reasons-i-really-love-the-guy-that-i-am-with Tue, 09 Jan 2018 13:30:26 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1266 I would like to have a girlfriend, someone to be in love with, but I seem to be a loser in the “romance department.” Any tips? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=i-would-like-to-have-a-girlfriend-someone-to-be-in-love-with-but-i-seem-to-be-a-loser-in-the-romance-department-any-tips Tue, 09 Jan 2018 02:29:10 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1243 I’m in a relationship that has lasted almost a year. I feel I am in love with my girlfriend but I am not sexually attracted to her. We have even talked about getting engaged and I’m wondering if our relationship can last without the physical part being there https://collegesextalk.com/?question=im-in-a-relationship-that-has-lasted-almost-a-year-i-feel-i-am-in-love-with-my-girlfriend-but-i-am-not-sexually-attracted-to-her-we-have-even-talked-about-getting-engaged-and-im-wondering-if-our Tue, 09 Jan 2018 02:34:09 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1253 My girlfriend sometimes goes sometimes for weeks without being interested in sex. However, the instant she is again, she assumes that I’ll be ready to respond to her every solicitation. Is it normal for women’s desires to swing like this? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=my-girlfriend-sometimes-goes-sometimes-for-weeks-without-being-interested-in-sex-however-the-instant-she-is-again-she-assumes-that-ill-be-ready-to-respond-to-her-every-solicitation-is-it-normal Tue, 09 Jan 2018 13:20:59 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1258 What about a long-term relationship when the woman is 11 years older than the man? It is great right now. What might it be like down the road? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=what-about-a-long-term-relationship-when-the-woman-is-11-years-older-than-the-man-it-is-great-right-now-what-might-it-be-like-down-the-road Tue, 09 Jan 2018 02:32:54 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1251