Desire/Arousal – College Sex Talk https://collegesextalk.com Real people real answers Tue, 17 Jan 2023 00:30:38 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.9.25 Can being in good physical condition increase your desire to have sex? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=can-being-in-good-physical-condition-increase-your-desire-to-have-sex Tue, 09 Jan 2018 13:33:16 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1272 I am only 22 years old and I have no desire for sex. I went out with a great guy for 3 and a half years. He was my first and he tried everything he could to pleasure me. We experimented and nothing worked. I could never got off except for an outer orgasm after he rubbed the outside of my vagina. Other than that, sex didn’t work and I hated to do it because it never pleasured it. What can I do? I think I may be one of those women who just cannot get off. I want that full body experience, but I can’t and it drives me to hate sex. Again, what can I do? Is there a particular way I should try to have sex? Am I doomed to never have that ultimate sexual orgasm that I hear so much about? Thank you for your help! https://collegesextalk.com/?question=i-am-only-22-years-old-and-i-have-no-desire-for-sex-i-went-out-with-a-great-guy-for-3-and-a-half-years-he-was-my-first-and-he-tried-everything-he-could-to-pleasure-me-we-experimented-and-nothing-wo Tue, 09 Jan 2018 13:27:21 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1262 I feel that my boyfriend doesn’t get into sex, or isn’t turned on. What can I do to make it better? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=i-feel-that-my-boyfriend-doesnt-get-into-sex-or-isnt-turned-on-what-can-i-do-to-make-it-better Tue, 09 Jan 2018 13:32:26 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1270 I have been seeing 2 commercials for Vasoplex and Climatique on TV and I was wondering if you knew much about them and if they work. Both of these products are supposed to increase the sex drives of women. I was also wondering where you put the substance to increase the drive and what it actually does? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=i-have-been-seeing-2-commercials-for-vasoplex-and-climatique-on-tv-and-i-was-wondering-if-you-knew-much-about-them-and-if-they-work-both-of-these-products-are-supposed-to-increase-the-sex-drives-of-w Tue, 09 Jan 2018 13:23:06 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1260 I have recently found a new boy friend after many years of waiting for one and constantly being under stress for my past two years at college for various reasons. I really love the guy that I am with and I want to share everything with him. However when I was spending the week with him for spring break I have found that my sexual desire was virtually non-existent. And this feeling has been there for awhile. And it is becoming a real problem because I want to be with him and be satisfied by him sexually. My non-existent sexual desire has made me not even want to masturbate to see what turns me on. the only time when I am in the mood is when i have to take the extra energy to get into it, which is very tiring within itself, and the other time is when i am extremely drunk. Please help me with this problem that is plaguing my sex life. https://collegesextalk.com/?question=i-have-recently-found-a-new-boy-friend-after-many-years-of-waiting-for-one-and-constantly-being-under-stress-for-my-past-two-years-at-college-for-various-reasons-i-really-love-the-guy-that-i-am-with Tue, 09 Jan 2018 13:30:26 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1266 I’ve always wanted to have a longer penis, my sexual partners hardly reach orgasm, is it the performance or the size of my penis? If the size don’t matter, how can I improve it? If the size really matters, then what is your advice? (Male, Senior) https://collegesextalk.com/?question=ive-always-wanted-to-have-a-longer-penis-my-sexual-partners-hardly-reach-orgasm-is-it-the-performance-or-the-size-of-my-penis-if-the-size-dont-matter-how-can-i-improve-it-if-the-size-really-m Tue, 09 Jan 2018 13:31:23 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1268 My girlfriend sometimes goes sometimes for weeks without being interested in sex. However, the instant she is again, she assumes that I’ll be ready to respond to her every solicitation. Is it normal for women’s desires to swing like this? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=my-girlfriend-sometimes-goes-sometimes-for-weeks-without-being-interested-in-sex-however-the-instant-she-is-again-she-assumes-that-ill-be-ready-to-respond-to-her-every-solicitation-is-it-normal Tue, 09 Jan 2018 13:20:59 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1258 What can I do when I want to make love, but my partner isn’t “in the mood”? How can I get him in the mood? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=what-can-i-do-when-i-want-to-make-love-but-my-partner-isnt-in-the-mood-how-can-i-get-him-in-the-mood Tue, 09 Jan 2018 13:34:47 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1274 When our relationship started over 2 years ago, my partner and I had a great and active sex life—for the past 6 months or so, things have died down a lot. I’ve heard terms about “lesbian bed death” and such. Is there a lot of truth to this? Is there anything we can do to get our sexual desires back? We both take antidepressants, which is likely a contributing factor https://collegesextalk.com/?question=when-our-relationship-started-over-2-years-ago-my-partner-and-i-had-a-great-and-active-sex-life-for-the-past-6-months-or-so-things-have-died-down-a-lot-ive-heard-terms-about-lesbian-bed-death Tue, 09 Jan 2018 13:28:22 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1264