Dating Dilemmas – College Sex Talk https://collegesextalk.com Real people real answers Tue, 17 Jan 2023 00:30:38 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.9.25 I am seeing a man 21 years older than I am – he’s 40 and I’m 19. He’s also married but isn’t in love with his wife. They are going through marriage counseling because she found out about us a year ago. We started our relationship over the summer again. He says he’ll know by next summer if he is going to stay married or not. Should I wait or should I just move on. https://collegesextalk.com/?question=i-am-seeing-a-man-21-years-older-than-i-am-hes-40-and-im-19-hes-also-married-but-isnt-in-love-with-his-wife-they-are-going-through-marriage-counseling-because-she-found-out-about-us-a-year Tue, 09 Jan 2018 02:24:11 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1240 I have been dating a guy for a few months and have a major problem. I cannot stand his friends. I do not want this to drive a wedge between us, but it is something I am concerned about. Should I say something or just ignore it? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=i-have-been-dating-a-guy-for-a-few-months-and-have-a-major-problem-i-cannot-stand-his-friends-i-do-not-want-this-to-drive-a-wedge-between-us-but-it-is-something-i-am-concerned-about-should-i-say-s Tue, 09 Jan 2018 02:11:25 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1220 I have been seeing this guy since the start of the semester – it has been pretty fun and has included a lot of great sex. But here is the problem – he is getting too emotionally involved too soon. What can I do or say to him to get him to back off? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=i-have-been-seeing-this-guy-since-the-start-of-the-semester-it-has-been-pretty-fun-and-has-included-a-lot-of-great-sex-but-here-is-the-problem-he-is-getting-too-emotionally-involved-too-soon-w Tue, 09 Jan 2018 02:10:25 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1218 I recently started dating a guy that I have been friends with for about a year. As friends, I had explained to him that after a very painful breakup of my last relationship, I wanted to go slowly in establishing a new relationship with someone else. He said he understood completely. The problem it, now that we have begun dating each other, everything I thought we discussed about going slow, etc is out the window. He calls me a lot, asks me out 2-3 times a week, and if I’m not home he jokingly wants to know what I was doing. I do like him a lot and enjoy his company. I even feel comfortable kissing him, but at this point that is all. I feel that if things keep going as they have been, it will get out of hand – what could be a good relationship will end just because it is going too fast too soon. How should I handle this situation? I hate to use the old cliche, but I do need some space until I know just how I do feel about him. Is there a way to go about it without hurting him? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=i-recently-started-dating-a-guy-that-i-have-been-friends-with-for-about-a-year-as-friends-i-had-explained-to-him-that-after-a-very-painful-breakup-of-my-last-relationship-i-wanted-to-go-slowly-in-e Tue, 09 Jan 2018 02:19:32 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1231 I want to be able to date others while at college, but I have a girlfriend back home. She doesn’t want to break up. Should I just go ahead and date people here and not tell my girlfriend? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=i-want-to-be-able-to-date-others-while-at-college-but-i-have-a-girlfriend-back-home-she-doesnt-want-to-break-up-should-i-just-go-ahead-and-date-people-here-and-not-tell-my-girlfriend Tue, 09 Jan 2018 02:08:17 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1216 I want to be able to date others while at college, but I have a girlfriend back home. I’m not sure I want to break up. Should I just go ahead and date people here and not tell my girlfriend? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=i-want-to-be-able-to-date-others-while-at-college-but-i-have-a-girlfriend-back-home-im-not-sure-i-want-to-break-up-should-i-just-go-ahead-and-date-people-here-and-not-tell-my-girlfriend Tue, 09 Jan 2018 02:21:16 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1236 I’ve been best friends with this girl for two years. I’m starting to develop stronger feelings for her now and I believe she feels the same way. How do I break the ice and not ruin the friendship if things don’t work out? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=ive-been-best-friends-with-this-girl-for-two-years-im-starting-to-develop-stronger-feelings-for-her-now-and-i-believe-she-feels-the-same-way-how-do-i-break-the-ice-and-not-ruin-the-friendship Tue, 09 Jan 2018 02:06:51 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1214 I’ve been best friends with this girl for two years. I’m starting to develop stronger feelings for her now and I believe she feels the same way. How do I break the ice and not ruin the friendship if things don’t work out? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=ive-been-best-friends-with-this-girl-for-two-years-im-starting-to-develop-stronger-feelings-for-her-now-and-i-believe-she-feels-the-same-way-how-do-i-break-the-ice-and-not-ruin-the-friendship-2 Tue, 09 Jan 2018 02:13:51 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1224 I’ve been sort of seeing this guy for a while. I had been seeing him last year, but we decided to break it off for the summer. I hadn’t planned on seeing him this year as anything other than friends. But when I first saw him in September I was still attracted to him. I wouldn’t even classify our relationship as dating – we just have sex. That’s not at all what I want. I tried talking to him a little last year about what I wanted but it didn’t do any good. It’s either his way or no way. I’m almost positive that all he wants is sex, but I want something more. Lately I’ve been thinking a lot about my past relationships and I’ve been feeling very regretful. I don’t know what to do https://collegesextalk.com/?question=ive-been-sort-of-seeing-this-guy-for-a-while-i-had-been-seeing-him-last-year-but-we-decided-to-break-it-off-for-the-summer-i-hadnt-planned-on-seeing-him-this-year-as-anything-other-than-frien Tue, 09 Jan 2018 02:04:29 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1213 My boyfriend is going to another school that is pretty far away so I only get to see him on the weekends. When we have sex, he gets really tired very easily. I was wondering if it was because he hasn’t had sex in a long time or if it was because he is cheating on me? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=my-boyfriend-is-going-to-another-school-that-is-pretty-far-away-so-i-only-get-to-see-him-on-the-weekends-when-we-have-sex-he-gets-really-tired-very-easily-i-was-wondering-if-it-was-because-he-hasn Tue, 09 Jan 2018 02:18:30 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1229