Breaking Up/Relationship In Crisis – College Sex Talk https://collegesextalk.com Real people real answers Tue, 17 Jan 2023 00:30:38 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.9.25 How do you know when it’s time to move from a friendship to questioning whether your friend feels more towards you? Often there are innuendos, but nothing specific has been said or done to indicate a more serious commitment, so it’s difficult to take a chance in ruining a good friendship. https://collegesextalk.com/?question=how-do-you-know-when-its-time-to-move-from-a-friendship-to-questioning-whether-your-friend-feels-more-towards-you-often-there-are-innuendos-but-nothing-specific-has-been-said-or-done-to-indicate-a Tue, 09 Jan 2018 01:54:20 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1201 I broke up with my boyfriend over a year ago, but I can’t stop thinking about him. I’ve dated other guys, but nobody seriously. Will I ever get over him? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=i-broke-up-with-my-boyfriend-over-a-year-ago-but-i-cant-stop-thinking-about-him-ive-dated-other-guys-but-nobody-seriously-will-i-ever-get-over-him Tue, 09 Jan 2018 02:03:06 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1211 I had this dream about cheating on my boyfriend. I felt guilty in the dream, but I didn’t stop what was happening. I have been a happy relationship with my boyfriend for almost two years, and neither of us have cheated on each other. Why would I be dreaming this, and does this reflect somehow on what I am feeling about our relationship? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=i-had-this-dream-about-cheating-on-my-boyfriend-i-felt-guilty-in-the-dream-but-i-didnt-stop-what-was-happening-i-have-been-a-happy-relationship-with-my-boyfriend-for-almost-two-years-and-neither Tue, 09 Jan 2018 02:02:18 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1209 My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years. We met in college and have been together since he was 18 and I was 20. We are very much in love. For the most part, we have a great relationship and one day, want to get married. Our friends, and ever our parents think that we were meant for each other. He has, in the past, had trouble being100% faithful to me (he hasn’t had sex with other girls, but sometimes gets drunk and kisses them) This has hurt me a lot, and I know he feels very badly about it. We both blame this on the fact that he hasn’t had anytime to really be a crazy-single-college student, because for his entire college career, he has had a girlfriend. Recently, he broke up with me. He told me that he loves me more than anything in the world and because he wants to be with me forever, he needs this time to be single for a while and date other girls. I’ve always known this is what had to happen. I have a hard time trusting him, because I do know that this one day was going to happen. It just breaks my heart to think of him with other girls, because I love him so much. We tried not talking, but we both are miserable without each other. Even though we are both going out on dates with other people – we talk from time to time. Its very hard for both of us. I know that I don’t want anyone else but him – all other guys pale in comparison to him. He says the same to me, but I still wonder why he has to do this. I’m wondering what the healthiest thing is to do? Should I move on? Should I wait for him? Should I be proud of the fact that he had to “courage to step up to the plate and be a man” or be mad at him for giving into temptation and following the crowd of college guys? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=my-boyfriend-and-i-have-been-dating-for-almost-3-years-we-met-in-college-and-have-been-together-since-he-was-18-and-i-was-20-we-are-very-much-in-love-for-the-most-part-we-have-a-great-relationship Tue, 09 Jan 2018 02:01:13 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1207 School’s back and I just found out that the person I’ve been seeing since last semester had a boyfriend at home over the summer. She hasn’t told me this – I just found out from her roommate. How do I handle this? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=schools-back-and-i-just-found-out-that-the-person-ive-been-seeing-since-last-semester-had-a-boyfriend-at-home-over-the-summer-she-hasnt-told-me-this-i-just-found-out-from-her-roommate-how Tue, 09 Jan 2018 01:57:34 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1203 What do you do if you carry strong feelings for an ex-lover, but you have lost contact due to distance? I’m afraid she may be mad because I haven’t called, but it was too hard to hear her voice. Can you make any suggestion of how to open the relationship again? https://collegesextalk.com/?question=what-do-you-do-if-you-carry-strong-feelings-for-an-ex-lover-but-you-have-lost-contact-due-to-distance-im-afraid-she-may-be-mad-because-i-havent-called-but-it-was-too-hard-to-hear-her-voice-c Tue, 09 Jan 2018 01:59:49 +0000 http://collegesextalk.caroncards.com/?post_type=question&p=1205